Insults_part 1

I will start by one H baby. About his personal informations, everything has to be cautiously, knowing they lie a lot.
He is in his 20s, he is virgin. He is studying to become a rabbi. He has never talked to a shiksa.
I think he is schizo or bipolar, moody.
He replied to a post on CL about my Hasidic kisser i was looking for. :-)
His first reply: 'I am here!'.
Usually i ask if they are married, if they have kids… because i don't really want to go further if they are looking for sex only.
I asked him for a photo and, indeed he couldn't send one.
He described himself: '26 BLOND 5/9 170 P CUTE SHY ATTRACTIVE'.
What's wrong right now? 
First, 'SHY' is not a physical characteristic, second 'ATTRACTIVE': pretentious, and also more pretentious when we know that he has no sexual experience as a virgin, either totally weird, or kissing his pillows made him very attractive. :-)
Third: he writes with capital letters, you will understand later why.

Then, my description and his reaction: 'i love older if you are hot
but i am not pro'.
Later: 'i am hassidic i have curls peyos and all the tralala and i can kiss well i want to be your treat i want you to use me and enjoy me i always fantasized about it don't throw me away'.

I asked before that if he was married, he ignored the question, so i asked if he was virgin, same thing until he replied twice: 'do you want me to be?', and 'DO YOU WANT ME TO BE?'

Do you start to understand the capital letters? :-)
He started to play the game between 'married' and 'virgin'.
Ok, he didn't want to reply so i asked once again but differently why he didn't kiss his wife. Game again, and suddenly: 'i want to lay with you in bed'

He liked to copy my emails for asking more explanation or later, to yell at me.
He was very pushy, asking all the time for being in my bed naked, having cuddles…
He was very confident that i will fall in love with him because he 'LOOK BEUTIFULL'.
He was very insisting to send him a photo: 'SEND ME A PICTURE OF YOU TO GET ME HORNY'.
He explained me his vision of his community: '70% DONT HAVE WEB AND 99.6 DONT LOOK ON CL THE REST 4% WANT SEX NOW YOU UNDERSTAND OUR COMMUNITY'.

His deal was if i send a photo he will reply to all my questions.
'i wont harass you ever and will be nice to you'. He harassed me 8 months.

Finally we traded photos of part of our face, but it was not enough for him. I refused to send my all face or all body picture. He wanted me to delete his photo but when i asked him for doing the same, he replied, as usual, by a question if i wanted him to delete my photo.
I was getting tired of his non replies, pretexting that if he didn't have the photo he wanted he won't reply my questions.
And then, vulgarity: 'you have no balls u r a girl?

what do you want a fling?
a one night stand?
an ongoing secret affair?
a relationship?
marriage?
were you ever are you married?
kids?
virgin?
how many hassidics did you fuck?
how many hassidics friends do you have?
how do you cum?
what do you like to do in bed?
did you ever have a hassidic guy with curls?
since when do you have this obsession with hassidim?
what triggerd you to like us?
how much do you know about us?
where did you live all your life?'

I decided to stop the conversation with him.
And bang, anger starts, and then insults:
'I guess you just hate blondes! 

I hoped to be with you in bed cuddle
i always fantasize to be in bed with someone your age
dont you like to use me as your treat?
why are you so eager to drop me?'

The easy insult is just to use the little things you already said to him and to be very judgmental. How many times he asked me the same questions and don't really read the answers.

'SHE IS XX or more single alone in crown heights tries to hook up with hassids no one realy wants her except to use her no one keeps her she posts online for some fulfillment dyes her hair red AND SHE THINKS SHE IS SMART LMFAO!'

And by the way, i never had the pretentiousness to say that i was smart. :-)

I insulted him once saying he was stupid as hell.

And then, a fireworks of insults: 'YOU STARTED IT BY SAYING I AM STUPID !! YOUR AN OLD LADY AT LEAST YOU LOOK OLD AND YOU PROBABLY GOING TO DIE ALONE KEEP LOOKING FOR YOUR KISS I GUESS HE DIDNT ENJOY IT AS YOU DID' and 'MENTAL? ASK ANYONE NO NEED A SHRINK FOR THIS A MIDDLE AGE (LOOKS OLDER) WOMEN SINGLE RUNS AFTER HASSIDIM SHE NEEDS MORE THEN JUST A INSTITUTION'

The day after, he apologized and said he was an 'ass' and 'i am a kid i am horny and stupid and have no idea how to relate to women never spoke to one outside my faith even in my fath it is only family'

I had hope that he might be a nice person and i gave him a second chance.

Then again, it happened.

Sometimes i don't know why i have so much patience.

His sense of humor was very different from mine, and without being mean, non existent most of the time.
He was completely obsessed by having sex.
About virginity:
Me: 'You are supposed to stay virgin for your marriage' 
Him: 'no such law'
Me: 'Since when?'
Him: 'there never was a law that u need to be a virgin'


On a Friday evening, before Shabbos, he insisted a lot to meet me. I repeated that i couldn't meet him that night. He was very scared of going in a bar and thought that i was used to going in the same bar for my Hasidic meetings. 'YOU TAKE ALL YOUR HASSIDICS THERE !! THERE ARE OTHER GOYTES I GUESS THAT TAKE THERE HASSIDICS TO BARS TOO 
I AM PARANOID AND IF YOU FIND A HASSIDIC THAT IS NOT THEN HE ISNT A TRUE HASSIDIC GUY '

He was mad at me because i didn't come and meet him. I am not sure he came finally. Just another reason to yell at me.

The last 'fight' with him was about the Torah by text messages.

Him

-life is our torah something you will never get, talking to you is not life it is a way out of it for a bit

Me

-If u think so...

Him

-we know it is you that think

Me

-?

Him

-we know what we do we know, you just think and guess and are basically wrong

Me

-Absolutely not, u r wrong to think that about me.

Him

-its not about you it is about everyone besides the ones that learn the torah and know the truth

Me

-Nobody knows the truth.

Him

-those that dont know it, think the others dont, but we do sorry

Me

-You mean: you know the truth?

Him

-yes i do

Me

-You are very young, so innocent but it's not your fault. :-)

Him

-i will grow old and will still know the truth you will grow old and live a lie and think u r smart 

And because it was not enough to be mean by text message, he sent me an email, using capital letters, copying this exchange and adding that:

'I DIDNT GIVE YOU ANY LESSON! YOU ASKED AND I REPLIED! IF YOU DONT WANT ME TO ANSWER THEN DONT ASK!!

YOU CAN BLAME ME AS MUCH AS YOU WANT, I DONT CARE AS I KNOW THE TRUTH!  I AM MUCH SMARTER THEN YOU AND SO ARE MOST HASSIDIC JEWS
YOU ON THE OTHER HAND WILL BE BLAMED FOR FOOLING AND LYING YOUR LIFE AWAY

YOU ONLY MEET GUYS (maybe dressed as hassidics)  THAT DONT KNOW WHATS FLYING (drop outs) OR ELSE THEY WOULDN'T OF MET WITH YOU!

I CAN BE WRONG LOTS OF TIMES BUT I WASN'T YET WITH YOU

YOU CAN STOP TALKING TO ME AS YOU DONT SOUND INTERESTING AT ALL

GOOD LUCK GROWING UP
STOP BEING A SAD SOUR SLOPPIE NEB
BYE!'

He never apologized, and stalked me until Purim, but i won't be surprised to receive other text messages or emails in the next future.